...Backbiting...


Backbiting is an art that we learn from devil and become a devil. After becoming a devil we become satisfied and think we are the king of the world. We rule! We are the best. We are too smart and can say something about people even they are not in front of us. This is called freedom of speech! Sometimes we think of ourselves so intelligent and leave some clues in our speech willingly in a way that we are catching fish without touching water.
Now i want to explain what backbiting actually is by the help of a story...
The prophet Muhammad once asked his followers, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said "Allah and his Messenger know best." He continued, "Saying something about your brother that he dislike." Someone then asked , "What if i say about my brother is true?" The Prophet Muhammad responded "If what you say is true then you have backbitten about him, and is it is not true, then you have slandered him."
Both of these are prohibited and punishable perpetration.
At last i just want to say don't do anyone of these. I am not doing anything because punishment by Allah is more dangerous than me.
Advises for my friends...
"Avoid people who talks sweetly before you but tries to ruin you behind your back, for he is like a pitcher of poison with milk on top."
A lot of problems is the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other.
Don't be over smart!!!

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